到底要不要

are you going to ... or not

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are you going to ... or not Used to press someone for a definite answer or decision, often with impatience or emphasis. The phrase 要不要 means “want to ... or not” or “should ... or not.”
CH: 你到底要不要跟我们一起去?
EN: Are you going with us or not?

我们到底要不要聚会

Are we having the party or not?

— 死亡诗社 (1989)

你们到底要不要

Hey, are you guys playing ball or not?

— 梦幻之地 (1989)

到底要不要

Are you going or not?

— 巴菲的奇妙命运 (2012)

到底要不要

Is she going or not?

— 红猪 (1992)

他们到底要不要检查

Are they going to check it or not?

— 汉江怪物 (2006)

到底要不要代表你们

So, are you going to represent us or not?

— 几近成名 (2000)